Ladies, I'd like to talk about clothes. I know as females we are genetically predisposed to love clothing. But sometimes the clothing we wear does not love us back. I'm here to be honest with you and let you know that it is okay to get rid of the clothing that does not fit you any more. If you still honestly fit into your college jeans after two kids, then great. But for the majority of ladies out there, this is not the case. I have found, after four kids, that my body has changed in more ways then my college jeans can handle, and their is nothing wrong with that. The first step to changing is excepting that your body changes with age. You can workout and loose weight, but your old clothes still may not fit. Again, their is nothing wrong with this. Throughout your weight loss journey you need to purchase clothing that fits your present body and makes you feel good. Spend the money, it will help with your motivation. You will feel good and want to keep going. Nobody thinks you look good with your ass crack and muffin top hanging out. But if you had a top and bottom that complimented your current weight, you will feel better about yourself and others will think you look good. Have some confidence in yourself.
Seriously, no one you know is going to tell you that you look bad, even though they should. So I'm here to tell you. Don't sweat it, just make a small change in how you dress, until the bigger change you have made starts taking hold and you begin to see the weight loss reward.
I have never worn a size 2 or 4, or any multiple of those numbers for that matter. I like to look nice in the clothing I wear, even if a double digit size is on the tag. The size is just a reference number for you to know what to try on, it has no value to your self worth. So throw away the old skinny jeans that cut off your circulation and get something that looks good and better yet, makes you feel great.
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